Funso lalikulu la unyamata ndi lomwe limatiyembekezera kuti tikalamba? Anthu ambiri amaganiza za "Autumn" ya moyo ndi mantha komanso mantha, ndipo wina akuyembekezera kutsiriza ndalamazi, kumapitilira muyeso, kumapitilira mzindawu ndikukhala ndi zidzukulu. Akatswiri azamiseche amati ukalamba umabwera kwa onse munjira zosiyanasiyana ndipo zimatengera chikhalidwe cha munthu, kukoma mtima kwake ndi ludzu lake.
Kupanda kutero, momwe mungafotokozere kuti gawo la penshoni kwezani zidzukulu ndi masokosi, ndipo wina akuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndipo amagwira nawo masewera owopsa. Okhulupirira nyenyezi amapitilizanso nkhaniyi. M'malingaliro awo, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pankhaniyi ndi zizindikiro za zodiac. Mwachitsanzo, masikelo okalamba amawoneka ocheperako kuposa ena, akamatsata mawonekedwe awo kwa zaka zaunyamata, ndipo Rable amathera nthawi yabanja komanso amalimbikitsa abale awo.
Ndipo mukuganiza kuti ndikalamba uti? Mutha kuyang'ana mtsogolo pogwiritsa ntchito mayeso athu. Takonza mafunso angapo omwe angamvetsetse malingaliro anu enieni ku ukalamba. Mwina atayezetsa, mudzasintha malingaliro okhudza okalamba ndipo adzasandulika kukhala osavuta kutanthauza zaka zomwe zikubwera. Ingoganizirani kuchuluka kwa nthawi yaulere yomwe mudzaonekere. Chinthu chachikulu sikuyenera kukhala lotopetsa, usakhale wokhumudwa.