Roman Jennifer Lopez ndi Bena afflec adakopa manyuzipepala ndi mafani awo. Ubale wa okonda unali wamkulu ndipo mpaka anatembenukira kukhala ndi lingaliro la kulenga. Mu 2002, banja litaonekera moona mtima chikondi chake mu kanema pa kanema wa nyimbo Jenny kuchokera kwa Blyny kuchokera ku Blyy, Ben ndi Jennifer anali pachibwenzi. Koma ukwatiwo sunachitike, ndipo mu 2004, ochita sewerowo adasewera limodzi mufilimu "mtsikana wochokera ku Jersey", adasiyana.
Posachedwa, mu Podcast of Hollywood mtolankhani wa Boywood ardred Ben Atn Amakumbukiridwa momwe gulu lidagwirizana ndi gulu lawo ndi Jennifer.
"Anthu anali ogonana komanso osankhana. Analemba molakwika monena za iye kuti ndi nthawi yathu ino, anthu awa amabalalitsa nthawi yomweyo. Koma tsopano amayamikiridwa ndi kulemekezedwa chifukwa cha ntchito yomwe adachita, ndi chilichonse chomwe adafika. Chifukwa chake ziyenera kukhala! " - anafuula.
Ndipo Lopez anazindikira mu imodzi mwa zoyankhulana kuti akukulunga ndi baseball yotchuka ya baseball Alex siziyambitsa chidwi ndi anthu monga othandizira iwoakulu.
"Kenako zinthu zinali zovuta kwambiri. Unali wamisala. Tsopano, osachepera, ine ndikhoza kuwonetsa anthu ena zomwe ine ndiri. Ndipo kenako anakhulupirira zonse zomwe amawerenga pachikuto cha Tabloid. Nthawi zambiri sizinali zoona kapena chowonadi chimodzi mwa gawo, "woimbayo ndi wokwiya.
Malinga ndi a Jennifer, osati ma tabolor omwe tsopano ndi otchuka kwambiri, komanso ochezera pa intaneti, chifukwa chomwe iye yekha anganene chowonadi. Mwachitsanzo, kuti wolemba wake pano si wothamanga wolimba sitethanthwe wolimba, ndipo bambo wachikondi ndi mwamunayo, amadzipereka kwa bwenzi lake.