"Munthu Ayenera Kulingalira Zokhumba za Mkazi"
Ayi, sayenera. Osachepera, osati pabedi. Apa pali gawo lofanana, ndikusewera gawo la Mfumukazi, yomwe mafunde ake akhoza kukhala atatha kuganiza kuti ma eyelashes a eyelashes, poyamba, opusa, komanso owopsa. Amuna ochepa amatha kupirira zikhalidwe zotere pabedi kwa nthawi yayitali ndikungopeza cholowa posankha mnzake wa demokalase komanso woyamikira.
"Tizimitsa Kuwala"
Mawuwo akuwonetsa kuti mkazi akunyoza thupi lake. Nthawi yomweyo, atsikana ambiri sazindikira ngakhale kuti bambo pafupifupi amaimira kuti ndi amene amawona mnzake akagawanika. Ngati uwu si kugonana mwachisawawa ndi mlendo, ndiye kuti munthu akhoza kudziwa zaka komanso kukhalapo kwa ana, kumenyedwa ndi kudyetsa ndi kudyetsa komwe kumasiya chizindikiro chake pa thupi la wamkazi.
Amuna ambiri amakonda maso awo, kuwaona ali wokondedwa wawo, kumasangalatsa, ndipo samamvetsera zolakwika zazing'ono. Palibe amene angakhale wabwino kwenikweni.
"Sindikumvetsa zomwe mwakhutira ndi"
Mawu awa akuti mkazi sadziwa wokondedwa wake ndipo mwina safuna kudziwa. Pakadali pano, chilichonse chodzilemekeza, ndikofunikira kukhala ndi lingaliro lofanana la psychoji yamphongo ndipo, makamaka, kudziwa zamatsenga za amuna. Ngati mnzakeyo sakhutira osakhutira, ndiye kuti mbali zonse za banja zidzasokonekera. Ngati munthu sakonda malo omwe mkazi amasankha, machitidwe ake pabedi, otsogola kapena tsatanetsatane wa njirayi ndipo kusamvana kumeneku kumaukira, ubale wa awiriwo udatsala pang'ono. Chabwino, kapena amangodzitsogolera yekha mbuye wokali wankhanza kwambiri.
"Mungakonde bwanji?"
Zachidziwikire, woyendetsa ndege amatha kufunsa mawu awa. Komabe, nthawi zambiri, monga momwe zimakhalira, azimayi omwe amadziwa kukoma mtima kwawo ndipo Mwamuna Amachita Mafunso Owonjezera, koma Kungofuna Kufunsa Zowonjezera, koma Kungofuna Kukhala Ndi Mafunso Owonjezera Momwe amuna amuna ambiri amamvera. Kenako ndimagwiritsa ntchito mwaluso. Kuphatikiza apo, funso lomwe limatchulidwa pa nthawi yosavomerezeka imatha kuwononga chisangalalo chonse.
"Sindidzayesa"
Sikuti aliyense amakonda kuvala zovala zamphongo ndi zikopa ndi spikes, ndipo si mkazi aliyense angavomereze kuti bwenzi lake litagona. Kunena za wokondedwa wotero, inde, sayenera. Koma sitiyenera kuiwala kuti posachedwa, kugonana kulikonse, ngakhale poyamba poyamba, amakhala atsopano, ngati kuti musapange mitundu. Kulakalaka kosalakwa kwa wokondedwayo, ngakhale sizikukusangalatsani, koma sizipitilira, ndikofunikiranso kuganizira. Ngati amalakalaka ndikupanga chikondi kuchimbudzi paphwando kapena nthawi zonse amayamba kugonana akamatha kuwona thupi lanu, tikukulimbikitsani kwambiri kuti muchite. Mapeto ake, kuunikako kungathe kuchitika, ndipo valavu pakhomo la abwenzi ndi kutseka motetezeka.
"Sindikonda zoseweretsa"
Monga momwe zidayambira kale, zonse zimatengera chidole. Zosavulaza, ndipo zosangalatsa zimatha kupulumutsa kwambiri. Kugwiritsa ntchito ma hamphani omwewo kungakuthandizeni kupatsa mnzanu mphindi zosaiwalika ngati iye amalakalaka akudzimva kuti ali ndi mphamvu yanu. Sindingafune kukhumudwitsa aliyense, koma ngati mukana mwamphamvu kuyesayesa kotereku, ndiye kuti, simungobwezera kapena ulesi kwambiri kuti musasamale zofuna za mnzakeyo. Tikukumbutsani kuti anthu nthawi zambiri sakhala ovuta kupeza m'malo mwa mkazi, maubale omwe sabweretsa chisangalalo.
"Ndikwabwino kudziwa pasadakhale kwa omwe ndimawakonda"
Tanena kale kuti mavuto abwino amatha kudzipezera kuti ali ngati mnzake. Kodi ndiyenera kuyamba kukambirana zomwe zimafanana ndi maphunziro ophunzirira zogonana? Ndizosangalatsa kudziwa chilichonse, kuchita mwachindunji ndi momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito. Ndipo ngati mmodzi wa omwe atenga nawo mbali sakonda izi kapena wina kapena winanso, amatha kuletsa mwakachetechete za mnzake pa UShko. Ndipo popita nthawi, muphunzira kumvetsetsana popanda mawu.
"Bwanji Kuyesera?"
Kenako, posachedwa kapena pambuyo pake, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti chilichonse chizipha chilichonse chabwino. Kuphatikiza apo, kukana kuyesa, mumayika pachiwopsezo chomvetsa chisoni zomwe, potembenuka, zimatenga nyanja yokondweretsa kwa inu. Ngati muli ndi chifukwa chimodzi kapena chimzake, pali mantha okhudzana ndi zochitika zatsopano, zingakhale bwino kupempha katswiri wazamisala kapena katswiri yemwe angathandize kuchepetsa nkhawa.