"Choyamba, anthu akuyembekezera chibwenzicho. Ndipo kenako tikuyembekezera mukakwatirana, "Wochita serress adauzidwa pakuyankhulana ndi New York Times. "Sindinkafuna kuuza ena zakukhosi kwanga, sindinkafuna kundifunsa chifukwa chake ndimachita zinthu zina. Koma kumalumikizana popanda izi, motero zinanditengera nthawi yayitali kuti ndimvetsetse kuti ukwatiwo si ine. Simuyenera kukwatiwa, chifukwa choti nonse mukukuyembekezerani, "agolide anapeza.
Kumbukirani kuti Nyimbo ya Women "Achita, Mlongo!" Nthawi yoyamba idakwatirana ndi Elvina Martin mu 1973, inali banja lalitali kwambiri m'moyo wake, lomwe lidakhalapo mpaka chaka cha 1979. Kuyambira mu 1988 mpaka 1990, wojambula wa Kasisen adasanduka Mtsogoleri wachiwiri, ndipo kuyambira 1994 mpaka 1995, agolide adagawana pobisalira ndi mkazi wachitatu - wabizinesi lylo trachtenberg.
Pambuyo pazaka zambiri, wochita sewerowo anavomereza kuti sanakonde mmodzi wa amuna Ake. Komabe, amayamikira kwambiri Alvin Martin, momwe mu 1973 anabereka mwana wamkazi yekhayo ku Alexandria.
