Msungwana aliyense amafuna kukumana ndi munthu wokongola, wodalirika komanso wopambana. Wotchuka kwambiri, mlongo wolemera kapena mlendo wosazizwitsa angawone malingaliro awo mosayembekezereka. Koma kodi mtsikanayo apita chiyani ngati chidwi kwambiri chidzatengedwera munthu wokongola ndi mphete padzanja lake? Kodi chidzatha bwanji pankhani zoterezi: kumva moona mtima kapena malingaliro anzeru? Kodi mtsikanayo amapeza buku lowopsa?
Mkazi aliyense amayang'ana pa ubalewo ndi munthu wokwatiwa kuyambira kutalika kwa zomwe adakumana nazo. Ena amatsutsa kwambiri zomangira zotere, ena sawona chilichonse chomwe chimayang'aniridwa. Koma zimakhala zovuta kuneneratu za mtsikanayo ngati munthu wokongola yemwe ali wachikondi amakhalanso oyamikira.
Sikuti amatha kupirira nazo, pamene chabwino kwambiri munthu amakhala ndi nthawi yayitali. Ndikosavuta kuti musagonjere kukongola kwa munthu wokongola, makamaka ngati chisoni chimatha. Mafunso 10 okha ndikulolani kuti mudziwe kuchuluka kwa momwe mtsikanayo amalimbana ndi chibwenzi chotere. Kodi munthu wonyenga angachite zooneka bwino amasintha m'maganizo kwa amuna ndi banja? Yankho likhoza kupezeka mutatha mayeso pang'ono.