Rosa Sibebitova nthawi zonse amagawidwa ndi mafani ake osangalatsa komanso ma satifiketi ya mbiri yakale yokhudza momwe anthu okalamba achikulire amakhala palimodzi. Chifukwa chake, tsiku lina adaganiza zolankhula za akazi ndi ana kuchokera paubwenzi wakale. Teleswa wanditsogolera monga chitsanzo, monga momwe anachitira ndi azimayi oterowo m'mbuyomu. Zimapezeka kuti atsikana omwe ali pachiwonetsero akale anali ndi mwayi waukulu kwambiri poyerekeza ndi azimayi akum'mawa kapena achi Greek. "Iwo amakhala pansi pa chitetezo cha makolo, iwowo amayenda moyo waulere komanso ku ukwati akhoza kukhala ndi okonda komanso kubereka ana."
Ananenanso kuti amunawo nthawi imeneyo amakonda akazi ndi ana, chifukwa amadziwa kuti awo adzabereka ana. Ndipo sanali ndi chidwi ndi lingaliro lawo ndi mwana woyamba wa mnzake. Xabitova adanenanso za tsoka la okwatirana nthawi imeneyo. "Mkazi wokwatiwa adataya mwayi wonse ndipo adayamba kulamulira mwamunayo, ndipo akamwalira, mkazi wamasiye amatha kukhala ndi moyo kuti awotche pamoto wamaliro kapena kutsogolera".
Telesvach adauza malingaliro ake paubwenzi wapakati pa amuna ndi akazi omwe ali ndi ana kale. Malinga ndi Xiabiteite, achinyamata amakono amagwira ntchito molingana ndi mfundoyi: Palibe mwana - palibe vuto. Rosa anati: "Ndikwabwino kubereka ndi kuphunzitsa kwanu momwe amaganizira zofunika," Rosa anati. Ndipo adafunsidwa ndi olembetsa ndi ana, kaya ali ndi njira iliyonse yothetsera vutoli.
Nthawi yomweyo, Asabito ananena kuti amagawika m'malo mwa anthu ngati mayi wa mwana wake. Sangafune kuti wolowa m'malo mwake adatsogolera mkazi ndi mwana. "Mutha kundikhumudwitsa, koma monga mayi wa amayi ine ndikuganiza kuti malo oterewa ndi olondola, ndipo ndili ndi mwana wamwamuna m'modzi," atero Teava.