Mtundu waku America ndi wochita sewero adagawana nthawi yomwe ili yapamwamba kwambiri yaubwenzi wawo. Chifukwa chake, nyenyezi ya zaka 29, yomwe imadziwika ndi gawo lalikulu mufilimuyo "Lilly Backley adatsogolera gawo la gawo leo" mufunseni mafunso ", komwe adayankhidwa mafunso owerenga. Mmodzi mwa mafaniwo adafunsa kuti: "Ngati chigoba cha chiyanjano sichili bwino, ndipo mwina zonse ndi zodabwitsa, kodi ndikofunikira kupitiliza kukwaniritsa ubalewu?". Kuchita seweroli ndi chidwi kuyankhidwa: "O ... ndizo chimodzimodzi za ine. Ndipo, moona mtima, izi zinachitika zoposa kamodzi pamoyo wanga. "
Komanso, kanemayo nyenyeziyo adavomereza kuti pakapita nthawi adaphunzira kupirira izi, ndipo adawalangiza angapo kwa owerenga. Malinga ndi Liilin, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pamaneti ndi "kuwona mtima komanso kuwonekeratu". Mkazi sayenera kuchita mantha kukambirana za zikhumbo zake. Zomwezi zimagwiranso ntchito kwa amuna. "Usaope kunena zomwe mukufuna. Ambiri mwa onse ankandikopa pamene okonda kundiuza zomwe akufuna kuchokera kwa ine, kodi zosowa zawo. Chifukwa chaulere ", - - adalimbikitsa nkhuni.
Komanso ochita seweroli adagawana malingaliro omwe amafotokozera "moyo wosapindulitsa." Amakhulupirira kuti uwu ndi ubale womwe anthu awiri sanapeze chilankhulo, sanatchulidwe kwathunthu, popeza njirayi imatenga nthawi. "Ndikamapita ku zomwe ndimapeza wachikondi ndi mnzanga, kulumikizana kwathu kunali kosangalatsa," a Shelin adati.