Mu 2018, Ben aftock anasudzulana a Jennifer Herner, yomwe inali yolumikizana kuyambira 2004. Anavomereza mobwerezabwereza kuti chisudzulo chinayamba "kumva chisoni kwambiri m'moyo wake" ndipo sanafune kugawana ndi nkhokwe.
Wopanga nkhaniyi atafunsa zomwe akuwona mkazi wake, adayankha:
Sindikudziwa, ndikufuna kudandaula. Kusamalira, kulemekezana komanso zinthu zonsezi. Zikuwoneka kuti zinthu izi zimakhudza kwambiri chisangalalo ndi chikhutiro. Koma mwina ali, kapena ayi, simungathe kuzitcha mokakamiza.
Zovuta zinagwiranso mutu wa nkhondo yake yolimbana ndi uchidakwa. Ananenanso kuti adakumana ndi zomwe adakumana nazo mu kanema Wochita seweroli adazindikira kuti luso lakelo lidamulola kuti azimvetsetsa bwino ngwazi.
Anzanga ambiri ankathana ndi kudalira komanso kusokonezeka kwamtundu uliwonse. Nthawi yomweyo, ambiri mwa iwo ndi oona mtima, anthu odalirika amakhala moyo wabwino. "Kuchokera pamasewera" Ndimakonda uthenga wanga kuti mutha kukhala bwino, mutha kuthana ndi zopinga,
- Analemba zofuna.
M'mbuyomu, wochita seweroli adauza kuti uchidakwa unakulitsa unansi wake ndi mnzake wakale, ndipo kusudzulana kwa nthawi yayitali kusudzulana ku uchidakwa. Ben kangati kuthandizidwa pamalo okonzanso, koma komaliza adagona kwa masiku 40 mu Ogasiti 2018. Atalemba mu Instagram yake:
Kulimbana ndi vuto lililonse ndi kulimbana kwa moyo wonse komanso kovuta. Ili ndi kudzipereka kwanthawi zonse. Ndikulimbana ndekha ndi banja langa.