Mafunso ndi gulu la filimu lomwe lidzathandizira kumvetsetsa bwino za filimuyo.
Pokambirana ndi psychotherapist Dr. Andrew Samueli, adapezeka kuti akuganiza pankhaniyi:
Monga gulu, sitikudalira luso lathu lolankhulana, koma pamalangizo apamwamba kwambiri. Mukuganiza kuti zimachitika bwanji? "Achinyamata ali ozolowera kusinthana malingaliro mothandizidwa ndi njira zamakono zolankhulirana kotero kuti pankhani ya kulumikizana, amakhala ngati chisokonezo chonse. Ichi ndichifukwa chake olemba anzawo ntchito amadandaula za zovuta zakusamalira nthumwi za mbadwo y (kuyambira pa zaka 21 mpaka 31) omwe aphunzira kumangiriza ndikuphwanya ubale ndi SMS kapena Facebook. Pali chinthu chimodzi chomwe sitinkazindikira - ambiri masiku ano amazindikira misonkhano yeniyeni yofunika kwambiri ndipo timangopereka tanthauzo lalikulu kuposa momwe limafunira. Tataya malangizo mu kulumikizana. "
Kodi mukuganiza kuti anthu ambiri angafune kuti lobotiyo inawathandiza pamoyo wawo watsiku ndi tsiku, osati munthu? Mwachitsanzo, monga chotsuka? Kapena wothandizira? Mukuganiza chiyani, zabwino ndi mavuto a izi? "Pali funso linanso pano - za kuperewera kwa moyo pa nthawi yamoyo, osati ntchito kunyumba. Chifukwa chake, lingaliro lonse la "Opepura", ndikuwunikira chilichonse chomwe chimachitika m'dziko lamakono, osati zowonadi zodziwikiratu zomwe zatchulidwa mufilimuyi. Mwanjira ina, tonse ndife maloboti m'zinthu zambiri m'moyo. Tauzidwa momwe tingaganizire momwe mungamvere. Zoyesedwa zimayesedwa ndi manambala. Werengani magazini. "
Mukuganiza kuti zingachitike chiyani pagulu ngati zochita zathu zilibe zotsatirapo zake? "Gulu la anthu nthawi zonse lakhala likutsutsana pakati pa odalirika komanso kulumala mamembala ake. Sindikuganiza kuti zinthu zisintha. Pali zabwino zambiri komanso zabwino padziko lapansi. Komabe (ndipo ambiri sakudziwika), sachititsa mantha kwambiri komanso wopanda kukopa kugonana. Ngati muyankha funso lanu lenileni - zoona, mulingo wa udindo wamunthu wachepa. Koma samalani chifukwa anthu amene kunena choncho (za kuchepetsa mlingo wa udindo), nthawi zambiri nostalging ndi m'mbuyomu, atanganidwa ndi miyambo, ndipo malinga ndi mfundo zawo, aliyense ayenera kumvera dongosolo. "