Ibyerekeye impamvu yahitamo kuryamana kandi ntabwo ari byiza : "Ijambo" ubwiza "nkunda" igitsina ". Kuberako umuntu ashobora kwigitsina. Niki gituma umuntu yimibonano mpuzabitsina - kandi urashobora kubyumva iyo avuga cyangwa no kwinjira mucyumba - bityo rero ko ibyo azi ko afite ikintu imbere. Arashobora kuba dusekeje, ubwenge cyangwa bwiza cyane, ariko arabizi neza. Kandi iyo umuntu yizeye wenyine, mubyukuri ni imibonano mpuzabitsina. "
Kubyerekeye urukundo kumubiri wawe : "Mu bwangavu, numvaga ntishimye kubera ayo makuru ko kamere yampaye, kandi yinubira impamvu iyo ari yo yose. Ariko bashiki bacu bakuze na Mama utangaje bamfashije kubona ko ukeneye guhindura imyifatire kuri njye. Ugomba kwiga gufata ibintu bidashobora guhinduka, no kubona ubutwari bwo guhindura ibiri mububasha bwawe. Byari nk'ubushishozi - Nahise mbona ko mfite imbaraga nyinshi zo gukora ubwanjye. "
Ko yorohewe kumera nka : "Mfite itegeko rimwe: Iyo ndebye mu ndorerwamo, ntibigera bibwira ibyo ntabwira inshuti. Ntuzigere wibanda ku makosa yawe ntawe, ndetse na mbere wenyine. Fata ishimwe ni ngombwa cyane, nubwo utabyemeranya nabo. Sinigeze numva impamvu umubare munini w'abagore bigoye gufata ishimwe. "