Bommer na Hollys hamwe imyaka itandatu. Abashakanye batera abahungu batatu: Umusaza muri bo afite imyaka 8, n'abahungu ba Twin y'abato kuri 6. Mu kiganiro amakuru arambuye, Mat yemeje ko muri 2011, bashyingiwe ku mugaragaro muri 2011. Umukinnyi kandi yavuze ku murimo we mushya - uruhare rw'abahuje igitsina, umurwayi ufite sida, muri firime ya tereviziyo "umutima usanzwe" ku kintu kimwe kigira Larry Kramer Kramer Kramer Kramer Kramer.
Bomer yagize ati: "Ntabwo nari mfite neza nk'uko mboneye ubu niba nta bantu nk'abo bameze nka Larry." - Nashakaga kwitabira uyu mushinga muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose. Kandi ntabwo ntacyo bitwaye. Iyo nasomye bwa mbere ikinamico, nari injiji cyane. Birumvikana, naje kubona impande zanjye zigitsina. Nagize umubano wurukundo nabakobwa, uko bishoboka kose mumyaka 14. Kandi uyu mukino watangaye isi yose. Ubu ni bwo bujurire butangaje. "
Kubwinjiriro muri firime, Mat yagombaga kugabanya ibiro na kilo 20. Kubwibyo, yari yicaye ku ndyo yo kunywa ibinyobwa iyobowe nabaganga. Mu minsi 14, igisambo cyakoresheje amazi gusa, imitobe, icyayi no kweza ibiyobyabwenge. Yagishije inama kandi mugenzi we ukurikije film "Super Mike" Matayo McConaja, urwo ruhare muri Club ya "Dallas Club" yatakaye kg 25. Mat abwira ati: "Yampamagaye kandi asobanurwa mu buryo burambuye kubyo yagombaga kunyuramo." "Byari byiza cyane, ariko nahisemo ubundi buryo butandukanye."