Rimwe na rimwe, abantu bigoye bihagije kuvugana nabandi. Bashinja inshuti zabo, abo mukorana, abo mukorana mu kutumvikana bityo bakaruta kubatandukanya. Muri icyo gihe, akenshi ntibumva ko ibibazo by'itumanaho bikunze kugaragara bitewe n'ingorane mu miterere yabo.
Turagutumiye gukora ikizamini no kwiga kubintu nyamukuru biranga imico yawe ifasha cyangwa ibinyuranye byangiza ifitanye umubano nabandi. Iki kizamini ntigisanzwe kandi amabara azagufasha.
Nk'uko byatangajwe na psychologue, uko tubona amabara no gutandukanya igicucu, birashobora kuvuga byinshi kumiterere yacu kandi tugashyiraho amabanga atunguranye yitsinda ryacu.
Nukuri, nawe ubwawe wabonye ko niba ibara ukunda ryumuntu ari umuhondo, orange cyangwa icyatsi, ni cyiza kandi gifunguye kandi gikinguye. Kandi uwibanda ku buzima bwacyo kumabara yijimye arafunze kandi akenshi wenyine. Witonze urebe amashusho, kandi witondere muri bo utera amarangamutima akomeye. Nkigisubizo, urashobora kumenya icyo ibiranga imico yawe byiganje.