Ashley w'imyaka 31 yamenye ko kubera ubunini bwe yagombaga gukora cyane kurusha abandi. "Nahoraga nsaba kwihanganira ibi. Nzi ko mama azagaragara aho ntahantu akankubita ku mutwe, aramutse yumva uko yinubira. Ariko igihe nimukiye i New York, abantu bose bambwiye ko nabyibushye. Byari ibihe bibi cyane mubuzima bwanjye. Mama yambwiye ko ngomba kubinyuramo. Modeli yaravuze ati: "Mana, narabumviye ntiyigeze ngerageza kugabanya ibiro."
Kumenya ubwana, Graham yemera ko atigeze agira umukobwa mwiza cyane mu ishuri. "Mana yanjye, oya. Nambaraga ibirahure, njya mu musatsi munsi y'inkono maze ndagurira inganure 52 mu myaka 12. Ariko ntibyigeze bumva ko badashimishije. Ntabwo naciwe n'imiterere, kuko mama na bashiki bacu babiri basaga: dufite amagufwa menshi n'amajwi menshi. Mfite ibinure no kugaruka inyuma yanjye, ariko ubururu bwanjye bwashishikarije abandi bagore kutagira isoni. Ndashaka kubagira urugero kuri bo. "
Ashley hamwe na mushiki wawe muto Ebigeyl