Hamwe n'ibirego bya Osthaus, mugenzi we Kylie Kaminsky yavuze, bavuga ko mu 2008 yahatiwe gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina mu kanwa. Yavuze ko adashobora kubyanga, kubera ko yatinyaga gutakaza akazi, nyuma yigihe cyose cyabaye igihe kirekire, yarwaye indwara ya psychotherapiste kandi yavuwe.
Ikidivu kuri TV cyemeje ko afitanye isano na Kaminsky maze avuga ko ibyo byose byari abadafite ubugwaneza, ahubwo ni ubwumvikane. Muri icyo gihe, Amy na Carter barashyingiranywe, batangira guhura nyuma yimyaka myinshi, bityo umukinyi usaba umugabo we atinyuzwe: "Noneho ubungubu cyane, mugihe udakeneye guceceka. Inkuru zimwe nukuri kandi ziteye ubwoba. Kandi hariho umugabo wanjye. Kuri njye mbona ko bimaze kugera kure. Iyo umubano utagenda neza nkuko ubishaka, ugomba rero gufata inshingano kubikorwa byawe, kandi ntugaragaza uwahohotewe. Iyi nkuru ni ubugome bujyanye numwe mubantu mwiza, wita kubantu. Yaje kure cyane, kandi agomba guhita ahagarara. Itangazamakuru rikeneye kugenzura neza amakuru kandi ryumve uburyo imitwe ikomeye ishobora gusenya. "
We are in a climate right now where it’s so wonderful and needed to have women coming forward to break their silence; it is vital and important for female equality. Period. A lot of the stories are horrific and need to be brought to light. This story, about my husband, Carter Oosterhouse, on the other hand, is now taking it too far and boundaries are being crossed. When you are in a CONSENSUAL RELATIONSHIP, then you need to take responsibility for engaging in that and not play victim. IF a relationship does not work out the way you want it to, then sorry, but that is the risk you take when getting intimate with another person. There are plenty of relationships I wish I could go back and make different choices about, but it was on me to decide. We need to take responsibility and learn from our mistakes and choices. Women are powerful and we need to be reminded of the strength and power we hold and learn ways to take care of ourselves so we don’t find ourselves saying yes when we really need to say no. The article is very damaging and cruel to one of the most kindest, loving, non-aggressive men I have the privilege of knowing and I am so sorry for these salacious words being thrown around, they are extremely hurtful. This type of reporting needs to stop, it’s so damaging for personal lives and careers and just not fair. Enough is enough, this is a plea to the writers, outlets and media…More due diligence needs to be done before crafting headlines and stories. Have discernment when you tell a story and please consider the source and story before just printing anything to get readers and viewers. #lovethesetwo
Публикация от amy smart (@smarthouse26)
