Benshi muri Ashley Graham bazwi ku buryo butangaje butazuka kuvuga kuri kamere muntu no kwerekana ibintu na "kudatungana" k'umubiri wabo. Kuba umubyeyi, Ashley yatangiye kuvuga yeruye kubyerekeye kubyara, kurugero, kugaburira umwana amabere nibindi bisanzwe biguma "kubice". Graham yemera ko ibyo bintu ari akarengane kugira ngo isoni, nubwo ari ngombwa kandi gisanzwe.
Mu kiganiro gishya na Et Ashley yazamuye iyi ngingo. Ati: "Nizera ko konsa bigomba kuba bisanzwe. Kimwe nibindi byose, hamwe ninshingano zababyeyi. Ababyeyi bose baratandukanye, bose ni umubiri wabo muburyo butandukanye. Konsa [ahantu rusange] bigomba kuba impamvu imwe mugihe umwana agaburira icupa, "icyitegererezo cyaravuze.
Graham ubwayo asohoza amafoto yayo ibiryo byonsa, kandi ashishikariza abiyandikisha kugirango bakure ubukana muriyi ngingo. Graham yerekanwe muri Instagram, nkuko diaper yahinduye umwana neza hasi muri supermarket kandi akoresha pompe yonsa muri tagisi.
Ashley avuga ko abona ko ari inshingano zayo - kugira ngo abone rubanda kugira ngo abantu bize kwiyemera n'umubiri wabo.
Ati: "Mu busore bwanjye, nta bantu nkabo bashoboye kuvuga kumubiri. Kubwibyo, ndabikora, kandi niki nicyo kintu cyingenzi kintera inkunga. Kubera iyo mpamvu, ntabwo nshyiraho amafoto "meza" muri Instagram - Ndabasigiye nyabyo kandi kamere. Ndashaka ko abantu bamenya ko hari abagore bafite selile, ibinure bireba inyuma, birambuye ibimenyetso ... "- Babwira Graham.