Nekupomerwa kweOsterhaus, waanoshanda naye Kylie Kaminsky akataura, uyo anoti muna 2008 zvakamanikidzwa kuita bonde naye. Akataura kuti aisakwanisa kurima, paaitya kurasikirwa nebasa, uye mushure menguva yese iyo yakaitika kwenguva yakareba, akatambura nekushungurudzika uye akarapwa kune psychotherapist.
Mharidzo yeTV iyo yakavimbisa kubatana kwake nekaminsky uye akataura kuti zvese izvi zvaive zvisingabatsiri, asi nechibvumirano. Panguva iyoyo, Amy naActter vaive vakaroora, vakatanga kusangana nemakore akati wandei, saka mutambi anoita zvine chivimbo mumurume wake: "Zvino nguva yakakosha kwazvo, kana iwe usingade kunyarara. Dzimwe nyaya ndedzechokwadi uye zvinotyisa. Uye kune vaviri nezve murume wangu. Zvinoratidzika kwandiri kuti zvakatoenda zvakanyanya kure. Kana hukama husina kukura sezvaungade, saka unofanirwa kutora mutoro wezviito zvako, uye usiriridze munhu akabatwa. Iyi nyaya ine hutsinye hukama nehumwe wevanhu vane mutsa uye vane rudo uye vane rudo. Akauya kure zvakanyanya, uye anofanira kumira ipapo. Midhiya inoda kunyatsotarisa iyo data uye nzwisisa kuti misoro yakanzwika ingave inoparadza sei. "
We are in a climate right now where it’s so wonderful and needed to have women coming forward to break their silence; it is vital and important for female equality. Period. A lot of the stories are horrific and need to be brought to light. This story, about my husband, Carter Oosterhouse, on the other hand, is now taking it too far and boundaries are being crossed. When you are in a CONSENSUAL RELATIONSHIP, then you need to take responsibility for engaging in that and not play victim. IF a relationship does not work out the way you want it to, then sorry, but that is the risk you take when getting intimate with another person. There are plenty of relationships I wish I could go back and make different choices about, but it was on me to decide. We need to take responsibility and learn from our mistakes and choices. Women are powerful and we need to be reminded of the strength and power we hold and learn ways to take care of ourselves so we don’t find ourselves saying yes when we really need to say no. The article is very damaging and cruel to one of the most kindest, loving, non-aggressive men I have the privilege of knowing and I am so sorry for these salacious words being thrown around, they are extremely hurtful. This type of reporting needs to stop, it’s so damaging for personal lives and careers and just not fair. Enough is enough, this is a plea to the writers, outlets and media…More due diligence needs to be done before crafting headlines and stories. Have discernment when you tell a story and please consider the source and story before just printing anything to get readers and viewers. #lovethesetwo
Публикация от amy smart (@smarthouse26)
