Malunga nesizathu sokuba akhethe ukuba nesondo kwaye akamhle : "Igama elithi" ubuhle "ndikhetha" ukuthwala ngesondo ". Kuba nabani na unokuba yi-sexy. Yintoni eyenza indoda ngokwesondo - kwaye ungayiva xa uthetha okanye ungena egumbini- ke uyaqonda ukuba unento engaphakathi. Unokuba mnandi, elumkile okanye enobubele kakhulu, kodwa uyazi ngokuqinileyo. Kwaye xa umntu eqinisekile ngaphakathi ngokwakhe, kuyinyani ngokwenene. "
Malunga nothando lomzimba wakho Ekwakufikeni: Kodwa oodade abadala kunye nomama omangalileyo bandinceda ndaqonda ukuba kufuneka utshintshe isimo sengqondo ngam. Kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuthatha izinto ezingakwaziyo ukutshintsha, kwaye ufumane inkalipho yokutshintsha into yakho. Kwakungathi yingqondo - Ndaqonda ukuba ndinamandla amaninzi ukuba ndisebenze kum. "
Ukuba ukhululekile ukuba ube njalo : "Ndinomthetho omnye: xa ndijonga esipilini, soze ndizixelele ukuba ndingathini na kumhlobo. Ungaze ugxile kwiintsilelo zakho akukho mntu, kwanangaphambi kwakho. Thatha ukuncoma kubaluleke kakhulu, nokuba awuvumelani nabo. Andizange ndiyiqonde ukuba kutheni le nto uninzi lwabasetyhini kunzima ukuthatha ukuncoma. "