Umxholo wokuzalwa kwabantwana kwihlabathi uqala uyenyuka ngakumbi kwaye rhoqo, kwaye ngenxa yokuba abazali abanokubakho bayeka bahlehlisa ukubonakala kwawo emhlabeni de kwangamaxesha angcono.
Abo bahlala bezama ukuqhuba ezi ngcinga kwaye bachitha ubutsha babo ukuba baphumle, ukuze baziphucuke kwaye benze imali. Abo babengenalo ixesha lokufumana abantwana kwaye sele bephumelele, ngelixa besombulula le ngxaki, baqala ukukhathazeka ngekamva kwaye abasoloko belungele ukunika impendulo ethile. Kubonakala ngathi lixesha - umntu esimthandayo, ubutyebi, kwaye abazali bahlala bebuza ngabazukulwana bexesha elizayo ... kodwa ngesizathu esithile uthandabuza.
Okubangela umdla kukuba, kwanabo sele benxitywe phantsi kwentliziyo yomntwana bahlala bebuzwa ngumbuzo- "kwaye ndikulungele loxanduva olunzulu?"
Sinikezela ukupasa uvavanyo ngala ukuba ungaphuli kuphela amava kunye nokoyika, kodwa ngexesha nje elifutshane kunokwenzeka ukuba ujongane neengcinga zakho kwaye wenze isigqibo esifanelekileyo. Kwaye uqonda nesiqingatha sakho sesibini ixhasa ukhetho lwakho okanye uzama ukutsala ixesha elilindileyo?