Ngamanye amaxesha abantu banobunzima ngokwaneleyo ukuba banxibelelane nabanye. Bagxeka abahlobo babo, abantu abathandekayo, oogxa bakhe ekungaqondi kwaye baphawuleka ngakumbi kubo. Kwangelo xesha, bahlala bengaziqondi ukuba iingxaki zonxibelelwano zihlala zibonakala zibangelwa bubunzima obukwimpawu zabo.
Siyakumema ukuba uthathe uvavanyo kwaye sifunde malunga neempawu eziphambili zomlinganiswa wakho oncedayo okanye ochasene nabanye abantu. Olu vavanyo aluqhelekanga kwaye imibala iya kukunceda.
Ngokutsho kwezengqondo, indlela esiyibona ngayo imibala kwaye sahlule izithunzi, zinokuxelela okuninzi malunga nemeko yethu kwaye ziveze iimfihlo zethu ezingalindelekanga.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, nawe uqaphele ukuba ukuba umbala othandana nomntu owutyheli, orenji okanye luhlaza, uyavuya kwaye uvulekile. Kwaye lowo ugxininisa ubomi bayo kwimibala emnyama ivaliwe kwaye ihlala yedwa. Jonga ngononophelo kwimifanekiso, kwaye unikele ingqalelo kubo obangela ezona mvakalelo zibalaseleyo. Ngenxa yoko, unokufumanisa ukuba zeziphi iimpawu zobuntu bakho ezinamandla.