NgoJulayi ngo-2018, uFeliciti watshata nomphathi-mfundisi-ntsapho oneminyaka engama-46 uCharles oneminyaka engama-46 wahlala nodliwanondlebe ugxininisa ukuba ingaba iqabane lakhe liyakholelwa njani kuye, umbulelo uyacinga ukuba inelungelo lokuzibiza ngokuba ngumfazi.
"Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukuba ngumfazi akuthethi wonke umntu ukuba enze wedwa; Ulwalamano oluhlanganisana, amandla okwabelana nokwahlula umntu-kwenza ubomi bube lula. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka ukuba ube kwicala elinye. Kufuneka ube nendoda ekwangumfazi. "
Kwakhona, umbango weminyaka engama-35 ubudala uyakholelwa ukuba "abafazi abanebhongo" lixesha lokuba bayeke "ukukhwaza" ukuviwa "kwi-Feliciti babeka amadoda anempembelelo kwaye onamandla abafazi.
"Kubonakala kum ukuba siqhutywa luhlobo oluthile lwezakhelo - umzekelo, le ngcinga ukuba ukuba ungumfazi onamabhongo", kufuneka ube noburhalarhume, ukuze uvile. Andisithandi esi simo sengqondo. Kubonakala kum ukuba lo ngumsebenzi wesizukulwana sethu-ukucela umngeni olu luvo lokuba ukuze nikwazi ukuva ukuba uluvo lwakho luqondwe, kufuneka woyike. "