Imigaqo ekhayeni labo: Andingomzali ongqongqo kakhulu, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bamise imithetho. Oku kubanika umbono wesakhiwo- yile nto siyikhangela. Kufuneka bazi into elungileyo, kunye nokubi.
Ukubaluleka kwamaxabiso : Ndikhulele eNishville, i-tennessee. Abazali bam bandifundise ukuhlonela abadala. Nabantu abadala, siye sathetha: "Ewe, mhlekazi," kukho, ma'am, ngayo. Abantwana eLos Angeles bayayenza loo nto. Ndifundise abantwana bam ukuba bahlonele abantu abadala. Kuya kufuneka babize abantu "Nksk Shannon", "Mnu Chiter." Mhlawumbi ndimdala kakhulu. Kodwa abantwana kufuneka bafundise amaxabiso endlu. Sifundisa izinto ezinje ngokuphendula ngokuchanekileyo ifowuni. Rhoqo ngokuhlwa sicula etafileni kunye nesidlo sangokuhlwa njengentsapho.
Ingaba imali ichitha abantwana bayo : Xa sisiya kwenye indawo ngeempelaveki, ndibanika iidola ezi-5. Banokuthenga into abafuna ukuyigcina okanye basebenzise ezinye. Unyana wam ufana nam, ufumana imali kwaye ngoko nangoko uchitha phezu kwabo kwinto emnandi. Intombi yam iyahamba emarikeni ixesha elide kwaye inyule ngononophelo ukuze ichithe imali yakho.
Iicawa kunye nabantwana Emzantsi kukho intsingiselo yokwenyani kuluntu lwabantu. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba yonke into ebomini ayikho ilize. Ndithatha abantwana bam ecaweni eLos Angeles. Sisokola ukuqonda ukuba yintoni ubomi, sifuna iimpendulo.