UmThetho oneminyaka engama-32 ubudala, osele enonyana oneminyaka esi-7 ubudala umkhweli noMtshato noChris Robinson, wathi indlela awayethanda ngayo engaguqukiyo yayingaguquki, kuba usapho luhlala luqala.
"Isimo sengqondo malunga noku sikhula ngakumbi xa uba mdala. Ezo zinto ubufuna kubudlelwane bokuba mncinci, tshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha. Ngoku ndibeka imbeko kwindawo yokuqala, ukunyaniseka, ukulalanisa kunye nokusebenzisana. Ndiyacinga, intlonipho luthando. Xa abantwana bevela, ngelo xesha rhoqo uqala ukunika ingqalelo yonke abantwana. Ukuba unolwalamano, kuya kufuneka ulungelelanise onke amabakala obomi bakho, kodwa jonga ebantwaneni. Ngenxa yoko, ubukho babantwana baya kuyicacisa ngokupheleleyo ukuba kuthetha ukuthini uthando kwaye babe nobudlelwane. "
UKate uyakholelwa ukuba unyamezelo, ukunyaniseka nokuthandabuza 'ku "ukudlala" kulwalamano kunceda uzinzo kulwalamano: "Andisabelanga kwizisongelo kunye nomoyikileyo. Ukususela kwasekuqaleni, ndinxamnye nazo zonke ezi zinto. Ndicinga ukuba nabani na onxibelelana kakuhle nam uyazi ukuba ukuba baqala into enjalo, ke ndiza kuyichaza yonke into endicinga ngayo. "