Ukuba akazi kakhulu malunga nothando : "Ndidla ngokuthatha into uthando, ndijonga emva kwaye ndihlaziye isimo sakho sengqondo. Mangaphi amaxesha awathanda ngayo? Ndiyazi ukuba bangaphi abantu abathi xa bephendula bathi: "Ndiyakuthanda nam." Ndingabakhathaleli, kodwa enyanisweni andiyivanga. Inxalenye yam yenyani iqinisekile ukuba awukwazi ukuthetha ngokupheleleyo ngothando ukuba ayililo ixesha lokugqibela. Ukuba ndisekupheleni, tshata, niyintloko yabantwana, ndiya kuqiniseka ke. Kuba ngonaphakade.
Malunga nabantu abangalunganga : "Ngokwenene batsala umdla wabo ungaqhelekanga. Bahlala benento yokuthetha. Kwaye ukuba bathi cwaka, bahlala bengazi ukuba bakujonga njani ukuze yonke into icacile ngaphandle kwamagama. Ndicinga ukuba iphupha layo yonke intombazana kukufumana indoda engendawo ngexesha elifanelekileyo - xa efuna ukuguqula kwaye engasabi kubi. "
Malunga nokuba kunzima kangakanani na ukuphila ngayo wonke umntu : "Andazi ukuba yeyiphi indawo yendawo yakho endinayo ilungelo, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba andifumani nto. Kodwa iimbasa zinecala elijikelezayo. Ndingadlala nje ikhefu. Kwaye kuya kuba noyolo, kodwa mhlawumbi akuninzi kakhulu. Ukwazi ukuba abantu bafuna ukumamela umculo wam - le yeyona mvakalelo imangalisayo. Kodwa ukwazi ukuba abafana abaneekhamera balinde wena ehlathini kwimihlambi-ayilungile. "