"Igazi elingaka": Umfazi weZinga zeHammer wabonisa unyana wakhe emva kokuwa

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U-Elizabeth Chede wabelane neendaba ezixhalabisayo malunga nonyana wakhe oneminyaka emithathu ubudala: Inkwenkwe yawa phezu kwebhedi kwaye yonakalise impatho, ngenxa yoko waphulukana negazi elininzi. Umlingane wangaphambili wezixhobo ze-hammer ekwabelwana ngayo i-hammer ekwabelwana ngayo kunye nomntwana kwaye wabhala:

Kwenzekileyo kakhulu: I-Ford, ngexesha lokulala, iqengqelwe phantsi ebhedini yaze yabetha itafile malunga netafile yebhedi. Ifakwe iiyure ezimbalwa- kwaye yena nam. Kwakukho igazi elininzi.

Kodwa umntwana sele encedisile, yena nomama baziva bhetele.

Ukongeza kwiFord, iHammer kunye neChembe ngokufutshane zisa i-harper eneminyaka emihlanu. Amaqabane aqhekezwe ngoJulayi emva kweminyaka eli-10 yobomi bosapho kunye neminyaka eli-13 yobudlelwane. Kutshanje, umkhosi wanika udliwanondlebe nemagazini ye-GQ, apho wayethetha khona ngenxaxheba nenkosikazi yakhe.

Ndicinga ukuba awuyi kufumana mntu emhlabeni oya kuthi ekhathazekile ngoku, kulula ukusinda. Inqaku ayisiyiyo ukuba yayilinyathelo [lenxalenye] okanye hayi, ukuthathela ingqalelo umbono olungileyo okanye hayi. Ngayiphi na imeko, ukwahlukana kukungcungcutheka okuqinileyo. Itsala kakhulu iintlungu ezininzi kunye notshintsho. Utshintsho yinto yonke eqhubekayo. Utshintsho alusoloko lubi, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba alunabubi,

Yatsho i-hammer.

Sikunye nabantu abadala, sagqiba kwelokuba. Kwaye eyona nto iphambili kuthi yayikukwenza ukuba uqhawulo-mtshato aluchaphazeli kakhulu abantwana, okanye ubuncinci luthathe uloyiko lwabo kunye noxinzelelo,

-Ugxininise umlingisi. Emva kokophula iChembe, uchithe ixesha yedwa kwiCayman Islands kwaye eqonda ukuba ufuna uncedo kwi-pschologistry.

Ndiqale ukunxibelelana nengcali yengqondo kabini ngeveki. Kwavela kuluncedo kakhulu, wandinika umbono omtsha wale meko kwaye wanceda ukusombulula iingxaki ezithile. Ngoku ndicinga ukuba wonke umntu makaye kwi-psychologist kwaye axoxe ngengxaki yabo,

-Ucwangcise izixhobo.

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