Kwinqaku eliye ngomhla we-13 kaJanuwari, ngo-2012, uJulie Blazi Intatheli ibhala ukuba imithi kwiminyaka yakhe engama-24 incinci kakhulu ukuba ingakhathazwa. Nangona ekhule kakhulu ngaphambi koontanga bakhe, sele eneminyaka eli-19 ubudala wadibana no-Rorylin Marid Manson, owayemdala kunaye. Ngokutsho kombhali wenqaku, iMbango ayizange isanele "iidiliya" ezenza ukuba abantu banomdla. Kwaye i-nude iposti ayiyopoyi kuyo.
Umdlali oneminyaka engama-31 ubudala uphinde uphinde iinkumbulo zolutsha olunesaqhwithi, kwaye wafumana iseshoni yefoto kunye nengxelo engahloniphiyo ngaye. "Imvakalelo eqheleneyo yasaba. Le mvakalelo ayilixabiso. Kodwa emva koko ndakhumbula ukuba bonke obu bubuxoki, "wabhala iinkuni," zabhala iinkuni, "Funda nje, njengoko ndichaza ubomi bam, ndingarhanisi ukuba injalo. Ndinenkani nje kumfoti endiwuthandayo, kwaye andikhathali ukuba ngubani onokucinga ngomzimba wam. Yonke le nto ibuhlungu kakhulu. Ngokungahloniphi, abafazi bajongana nawo yonke indawo kumzi-mveliso wefashoni, "i-EVERAN ishwankathela.