UMateyu McConahi nenkosikazi yakhe uCamila alves baba ngamagorha awona magazini intshayelelo yeMagazini yeMagazini neMagazini yeMagazini.
Kule veki iphelileyo babhiyozela iminyaka esibhozo ukususela ngomhla womtshato. Esi sibini siphakamisa abantwana abathathu: uLevi eneminyaka elishumi ubudala, oneminyaka eli-11 ubudala kunye ne-Livingston eneminyaka esixhenxe. Ngo-2008, iMcCohi kunye ne-alves yaseka umbutho osazisayo wokuxhasa abafundi abasebenza kwizikolo eziphakamileyo gcina i-livin, ethi "ibabonelela ngezixhobo zokwenza ubomi obusebenzayo kunye nokwamkela izisombululo ezisempilweni." Kudliwanondlebe noMateyu noCamila, babethetha kancinci ngesisa sawo kwaye bakhulisa abantwana.
Ndiyakholelwa kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo kukho ithuba lokugqibela lokulumkisa abantwana abakwishumi elivisayo kwaye bathumele indlela elungileyo,
-Uyi-Actor. Kwangelo xesha, iMcConas ayikholelwa ekubeni isisa kukungazithembi:
Ukunika nantoni na kwabanye ngumnqweno wokuzingca. Ndiyathanda ukubona uncumo lwabo sincedayo, beva indlela abantu abaselula besixelela ngayo 'enkosi. " Ngaba akukho ngqiqweni? Ndicinga ukuba le linyathelo le-egos ngokupheleleyo.
Kwakhona, umlingisi wachaza umahluko phakathi "ukunika bonke abantwana" kwaye "ukunika oko bakufunayo."
Ngamanye amaxesha ukuthanda abantwana kuyehla ukubanika yonke into abayifunayo. Abantu abazizityebi banokubanika abantwana babo yonke into, kodwa ekugqibeleni bangekhe bafumane into abayifunayo. Ukuthanda abantwana kunzima kakhulu ukuba awuzikhathalelanga. Ukubaxelela "hayi" kunzima ngakumbi kunokuthi "" Ukugweba ngendlela umfazi wam ejija, ndihlala ndixelela abantwana "ewe." Mhlawumbi ulungile
-Awabelwe uMateyu.