I-Ashley eneminyaka engama-35 ubudala uTisdale iyaqhubeka nokuxelela abalandeli malunga namava akhe okhulelwa. Kutshanje, kwibhlog yakhe, umongo wabelana ngeengcinga zakhe malunga nokwamkelwa komzimba wakhe oguqulweyo.
"Ndiza kuthembeka. Khange ndifikelele kolo mnandi kwaye ndifudumele ukuba umzimba wam umhle. Ungandicinezeli: Ndinebhongo ngomzimba wam kwaye ndinombulelo ngento yokuba inokukhulisa umntwana kwaye ibuye ekhaya. Kodwa iyandoyikisa indlela encinci yokutshintsha umzimba. Andisazi ukuba ndingaziboni ndikweli qhenqa, "wabelana ngoAshley.
UmThetho wavuma ukuba "unehlazo kwaye engathandeki" ngamaxesha ngenxa yotshintsho lomzimba, ke wagqiba kwelokuba aqale ukuthetha ngayo. "Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlonipha into oyivayo, kwaye uqonde ukuba konke ukhulelwe ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo," watsho u-Ahley.
Ilinde ukuba ndijongane notshintsho lokuphela, uTisdale: "Ndiza kunika umzimba ixesha elininzi, makamkhathalele."
Kwangoko, uAshley wakhalaza malunga ne-fastar faccis ngokuchasene nemvelaphi yokukhulelwa, ngenxa yoko kuyenzeka. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku le yeyona ndawo imbi kakhulu yokukhulelwa kwam. Kubuhlungu ngokuhamba nje. Andikaze ndive iintlungu ngaphambili. Ndiyathemba xa kuzalwa umntwana, kuya kudlula. Ndiyazi, izinto zinokwenzeka kwaye zisiba mbi. UTsisdale wayesabelana.