E-Emily, uEmily Ratakovski wabhalisa kwinto yokuba ngexesha lethu, abafazi basabonisa indlela yokubonisa ubuhlobo babo ngokwesini. Ukhumbule indlela amajelo eendaba ekhwaza ukubanjwa kwakhe ngexesha lokukhusela ngokuchasene nokutyunjwa komtyholwa we-Brett Cavano kwiNkundla ePhakamileyo.
Ke zonke iintloko zakhwaza ngento endiyenzileyo, kodwa malunga neengubo zam. Nditsho nabafazi abazixhasa injongo yoqhanqalazo zam, baxoxe ngokusilela kwe-bra phantsi kwe-t-shirt emhlophe. Ngokoluvo lwabo, inkangeleko yam yazilahla imisebenzi yam yezopolitiko. Kodwa kutheni?
-buza inkanyezi.
Iziphumo zesincoko sayo yayikukuphela: ubufazi kakhulu kukhetho.
Ukuba ndihombisa ii-Armppits okanye yokuyeka ukucheba-lishishini lam. Ngokoluvo lwam, iinwele ezinqeni zelinye ithuba lokuba abafazi babonakalise amandla abo okukhetha
-ingene eMily.
Ababhalisile bapapasho abangenakusiqonda isincoko sikaRatakovski kwaye, bagqiba kwelokuba nokuba ungayiqondi le nto wayethetha ngayo, okanye ehanahanisa. "Sibiza uhanahaniso. Nokuba kukho iinwele, kwifoto usenazo iinwele ezigqibeleleyo, ubuso obugqibeleleyo kunye nomzimba ogqibeleleyo, ngenxa yoko kwanele ukwenza, "wawuhlekisa, kwaye wayengazange abenazo iinwele emzimbeni," Yiba ngumfazi-awulibaliyo ngococeko, "Ngoku, xa unomdla, nokuba ulungile, wabhabha," wabhala abasebenzisi.