I-Talia Barnett, eyaziwa ngokuba yi-fka yamawaka, iyaqhubeka nokuchaza inkwenkwe yakhe yangaphambili i-shay labafe. Khumbula, imvumi yambeka enkundleni, etyhola kubundlobongela basekhaya.
Kudliwanondlebe nobuso, uTalia waphawula ukuba yayiyinto enkulu ukuba ixelele ngamava akhe kunye ne-arsurirr. "Kwakungathi ndiphiliswayo ngenxa yam kunye nookhokho bam ababenogonyamelo. Kwakulinyathelo elikhulu kungekuphela nje kum, kodwa nakwabanye abafazi abanamava okanye abava ngathi. Kule mihla, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba wonke umntu abe noxanduva ngezenzo zabo. Andithethi ukuba "inkcubeko yenkcubeko yangoku," ndithetha ngoxanduva lokwenene, olunzulu, olunzulu. Enkosi, safika kwinto yokuba abafazi abakwazi kuthi cwaka ngezinto ezinjalo, utshilo uBarnett.
Imvumi iphawulile ukuba thetha malunga nobundlobongela basekhaya sisihloko esitsha, kwaye izinto ezininzi ezikhoyo aziqondwa ngokupheleleyo. "Andizabalanga ukuba sisiqalo seli mpahla, kodwa ubomi ngandlela thile wandikhokela kule nto. Ndiye ndaqonda ukuba umntu omdala kwaye ndiyazi ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndenze isigqibo sokuba ndingenza into elungileyo. Ndinokuchaphazela into. Nangona zisezininzi izinto [kwisihloko sogonyamelo lwasekhaya], olu luntu oluza kufezekiswa, "imvumi yabelana.
Ngaphambili, i-pieds iwuphendule umbuzo odla ngokubuza amaxhoba obundlobongela: "Kutheni ungasishiyanga ubudlelwane?" Esi sinqeni sithi ubudlelwane obuphambelizayo abubonakali kangako kumfazi ukuba ufike kubo. Umvumi oqaqambileyo wokuba le "yenkqubo echuliweyo ekhula ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye inyathelo ngenyathelo likhokelela kwixhoba apho athe wazivumela ukuba acinge ukuba uyakufanelekela ulwalamano olunjalo. Olu ayilohlobo olunye lomsitho- yiqela lezinto ezincinci ezidibanisayo kwinye into enkulu yobusuku. "
Inokwenzeka nganye. Ukuba uphosa isele kwi-Boiler yamanzi eshushu, uye watsibela ngaphandle kwalo. Kwaye ukuba uyiphosa emanzini abandayo kwaye uyifudumeza kancinci, isele lifudule. Ke yayikum ngeLatyiff, "uBarnett ucacisiwe.