URosa Syabitova uhlala wahlulwe ngabalandeli bakhe ababukeleyo kunye nezatifikethi zembali malunga nendlela abantu abadala abantu abatshatileyo baza bahlala kunye. Ke, ngenye imini wagqiba kwelokuba athethe nabafazi nabantwana babudlelwane bangaphambili. UTeleswa wakhokela njengomzekelo, njengoko besenza amanenekazi mandulo. Kuyavela ukuba amantombazana akwi-SLAv zakudala ayengamalungelo amaninzi xa kuthelekiswa nabafazi basempuma okanye isiGrike. "Bahlala phantsi kokukhusela ootata, bahamba babelana ngokukhululekileyo kwaye emtshatweni banokuba nabathandi kwaye bazale abantwana," watsho wazala abantwana.
Uye waxela ukuba amadoda ngelo xesha ayekhetha abafazi nabantwana, kuba babesazi ukuba abo babenokukwazi ukuzala abantwana. Kwaye babengenamdla kwinto njengolwalamano lwabo nomntwana wokuqala weqabane lakhe. Xiabittova kwakhona malunga nekamva labasetyhini abatshatileyo belo xesha. "Ibhinqa elitshatileyo laphulukana namalungelo amantombazana laza laza lafa linamandla umyeni, ukuba uthe wafa, umhlolokazi wayenokutshaya".
I-Telesvaich yabelana ngoluvo lwakhe ngobuhlobo obukhoyo phakathi kwamadoda nabafazi sele benabantwana. NgokukaXiabite, abantu abancinci banamhlanje basebenza ngokomgaqo: akukho mntwana-akukho ngxaki. "Kungcono ukuzala kwakho kwaye ufundise ngendlela eyijonga ngayo," utshilo uRosa. Kwaye ebuzwe ngababhalisi nabantwana, nokuba banayo naziphi na iindlela zokusombulula le ngxaki.
Kwangelo xesha, i-Shalabitova yaphawula ukuba ihlule isikhundla sabantu njengonina wonyana wakhe. Wayengayifuni indlalifa yakhe ukuba akhokele umfazi nomntwana. "Ungakhubeka kum, kodwa njengonina kamama ndicinga ukuba isikhundla esichanekileyo, kwaye ndinonyana omnye," watsho uTediva.