Malunga nokuba kwakufuneka asebenze nezigulana ezinabantwana ngaphambili : "Ewe. Ukuba ngumntwana okwishumi elivisayo, ndanceda kwinkampu yehlobo yabantwana abakhubazekileyo. Kwakukho abantwana abanezifo ezahlukeneyo. Kwakukho umfana omnye kwaye onesidima. Wayeneminyaka engama-20 okanye engama-21. Kwakuyimfuneko ukumlandela umhla ngemihla. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, xa ndajonga emehlweni akhe kwaye wandijonga, ndandisazi ukuba uyaziqonda into. Kwaye andisokuze ndiwalibale la mava. "
Ukubaluleka kwemibutho eqhutywa : "Utata uthatha inxaxheba. Waphulukana nomlenze ngenxa yengozi xa ndandisesincinci. Kwakuyoyikeka, yabangela zonke iingxaki ezinokwenzeka: Zombini ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwengqondo. Ngelo xesha, isiseko sothando sasinenkxaso enkulu yosapho lwam. Ke ndiyaqonda ukuba amava am akho anokwenziwa kangakanani umbutho wesisa. "
Malunga nenjongo yobunye : "Kum, mamabengobu andithethi ukuba ndijonga abantwana kwaye ndibanike ezona zikolo zibalaseleyo. Oku kuthetha ukubanika inkululeko yokuba bafuna ngokwabo. "