Abalandeli babengenalo ixesha lokushenxiswa kwii-Arhets ezingachazwanga kwaye badale ulusu lwenkanyezi, baxoxa ngeentsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, njengeseshoni entle yeseshoni kwiNtloko yeNtlango yentlango. Kudliwanondlebe nemvumi eqiqa abantu abasetyhini abasekukuba nzima kweli lizwe njengokuzalwa. Xa umfana ofuna impumelelo namandla okuzisebenzisa ukuze aphembelele abanye abantu, umfazi uzabalazela ukuba njalo kangangokuba akasakhathali malunga nokuba ilawulwa. Akukho dumo kwanele ukuba umfazi akhuseleke, "uHolley wagwetywa.
Kwenye yeevidiyo, imvumi ixelele ukuba wenza i-tattoo yokuqala eneminyaka eli-15, nangona ihlala i-tattoo ingenziwa kuphela ngabantu abadala. "Ewe, mhle kwangoko, kodwa umama wayesoloko enee-tatoos ezininzi, ngoku uvaliwe ngemikhono. Ndikhumbula indlela endifika ngayo ekhaya ndamxelela: "Mama, ndifuna kakhulu i tattoo." Waphendula wathi: "Hayi, awunakuba". Ndabuza: "Kutheni? Ninawo." Waphendula ke wathi: "Ngaba uyazi ukuba yintoni? Ulungile." Umama wam wandithatha ukuba ndenze i-tattoo yam yokuqala. Wamenza wazalisa ezinyaweni, uninzi lwalo nyaka ibingabonakali phantsi kwe-sneakers. Yayiyincukubhi, iziqalekiso zam zazisezilwimi zam, kodwa kuye.