I-Agatu Mutzing ikamva laziswa nePavellica, ngaphandle kokudubula uthotho lweTV "Isikolo esivaliweyo", ngoJulayi ka-2011, esisayiniweyo. Nangona kunjalo, kunyaka ophelileyo umtshato wabo wapheliswa ngokusemthethweni. Abadlali bakhulisa abantwana ababini - i-8 ye-DAMOFEY kunye ne-4-oneminyaka emi-4 ubudala. Xa kukho usapho kukho iindlalifa, uqhawulo-mtshato uhlala uqhubeka ubuhlungu. UAgatha uthembele ukuba ngenxa yazo akunakwenzeka ukuba uyeke ukuvumela ukunxibelelana neqabane langaphambili.
"Ndicinga ukuba ngenxa yokuba abantwana kufuneka bagcine unxibelelwano lwabazali ababini. Awungomyeni nenkosikazi, kodwa ngabazali. Kufuneka sizame ukucinga ngayo, "watsho udliwanondlebe noTeleprogramma.Pro.
Kodwa abafazi kufuneka bakwazi ukujamelana namava eemvakalelo ahambelana noqhawulo mtshato. Ukuze babelane ngamava abo kwaye bathethe ngobomi babasebenzi abaqhawule umtshato, umongo bade basungula eyakhe i-YouTub "uqhawulo mtshato onyanisekileyo".
Kwakhona, uAgata waqatshelwa kudliwanondlebe oyena mntu ulungileyo "obalaseleyo" kwingxaki yizemidlalo. Ukongeza, umongo ucebisa ukuba angazami ukubuyisela umyeni wangaphambili.
"Ayikaze yenzeke. Luvo nje lobudenge, umntu uya kuphoxeka kwaye umntu uya kubandezeleka, abantwana baya kubandezeleka, 'utshilo umzobi.
Isindululo asizukufaka umnqamlezo kwaye sicinge ngokuba ngumama okwesithathu. "Ewe, ndifuna ukuba umntwana wesithathu. I-Agata yamkelwe. Oyena mntu, kodwa yimeko ebaluleke kakhulu kuye - ukuze abantwana babezelwe emtshatweni. "Ndidinga ukudala usapho, andikwazi ukuzala umntwana kuphela," ndazigxininisa.