Uye wakwazi ukufumana ibhalansi phakathi kobunye kunye nomsebenzi : "Umbuzo webhalansi uhlala ubonakala undihlekisa njengoko ndingacingi ukuba ikhona. Kwabonakala ngathi andikaze ndenze ngokwaneleyo. Ndicinga ukuba ndicombuleleni kakuhle kwiimbopheleleko zekhaya, kodwa zama ukulungelelanisa amandla am ngento eyenzekayo kwiindonga zakhe? Kulucelomngeni. Ndifuna kwaye ndinokwenza ngaphezulu. Ndiqalise ukwenza ngaphezulu xa abantwana bam bezimele. Kodwa ngoku ndinomntwana omnye. Kulungile, kwaye ubomi bam bahlukile, ndiziva ndincinci utshintsho. Xa ndaba ngumama wamdala, andizange ndicinge ukuba ndingenza enye into. Ndilayishwe kakhulu. Ndaziva ndinetyala nokoyika ngenxa yomsebenzi kwaye ngenxa yokungabikho kwakhe. Ebutsheni bakhe, inzima kakhulu. Kungenxa yoko le nto ndivuya kuba ndinomnye umntwana kwiminyaka yobudala ethe tye. "
Malunga nendlela agqiba ngayo abaphathi abasebenza nabo abaphathi : "Ndidla ngokuxabisa imisebenzi yabo yangaphambili. Ngamanye amaxesha banokuphumelela, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha-ayikabi kakhulu. Kwaye rhoqo ndikhetha abalawuli bomhlali babalawuli. Ngokufanelekileyo, ukuba le yayingengowokuqala amava abo, nangona ingakhutshelwa ngaphandle. Le yinto enokuthathwa ngumbhali. Into ekhethekileyo kukusebenza nomntu obhale, kwaye emva koko ufikelele kwiprojekthi yakhe. "