Ukuba usapho lubaluleke ngakumbi kuye Ngokuqinisekileyo: "Ngokuqinisekileyo ndiziva ngathi umsebenzi wam usendaweni yesibini emva kosapho. Emva kokuzalwa kwentombi yokuqala, ndathatha ikhefu leminyaka emithathu. Kwaye emva kokuzalwa, owesibini akazange asebenze unyaka onesiqingatha. Xa ndandimncinci, umama wasebenza, kwaye ndandikholelwa ukuba ndisebenza nje umama. Kodwa ndiye ndabona ukuba kwakunzima kakhulu kusapho nangexesha elifutshane. Xa besiya esikolweni, ndiza kubuyela kwihlabathi lam lobuchule. Kodwa ngoku ndibeka usapho kuqala, kwaye le yeyona ndlela ilungileyo, imnandi nenomdla yokuchitha ixesha. "
Ukuba uzama ukugcina abantwana kude nengqwalaselo yendalo iphela : "Ukuba bube lubalamano ndisithanda isihloko endisithandayo, kodwa ndikuthiyile ukuthetha ngodliwanondlebe. Abantwana bam abakhethanga ubomi phantsi kwengqwalaselo esondele kwindalo iphela. Kubonakala kum ukuba ndithetha ngabo, abantu baya kuqala ukubonisa umdla omkhulu. Umsebenzi wam kukukhusela i-crumbs yam. "
Malunga nokuba umzimba wakhe utshintshile ngokuzalwa kwabantwana : "Ndandihlala ndingomnye wamantombazana amnandi anokungatsho ngokunyaniseka:" Nditya yonke into ngokulandelelana. " Kodwa emva kwe-35 yonke into itshintshile. Kwaye ngandlel 'ithile, ndiyavuya, kuba ayilunganga kakhulu kwiidesses ezintathu ngosuku. Ewe, ukwaluphala yinkqubo enomdla kakhulu kuthi. Ngakumbi xa unabantwana. Akunakwenzeka ukuba uyikhanyele into yokuba umzimba wakho uqaphele ukubonakala wahlukile, ngakumbi xa ungaphandle kwempahla. "