Vavanya: Yintoni abanye bacinga ngawe ngokwenene?

Ngaba ikwanexabiso kuwe okanye uhlala ngokomgaqo "wento ephambili endiyithandayo!"? Ukuba uphendule lo mbuzo ukhetho lokuqala, oko kukuthi, ukuba lusabalulekile kuwe, ukuba ucinga ntoni okanye ubuncinci nje, emva koko uye kwiphepha elingalunganga! Uvavanyo lwethu lubeka umbuzo ofanayo ngqo nomsebenzi, oko kukuthi, ukususela eGameni: "Ubukela njani?". Kwaye uya kumphendula yena. Kufuneka umxelele into ebalulekileyo ekusombululeni i-nues. Akunzima, kodwa nangona kunjalo! Phendula imibuzo kunye nayo yonke into, kanye emva kokuba ufunde malunga nendlela, eneneni, abantu bayavavanywa. Kule mihla, ngophuhliso olunjalo lwenethiwekhi zentlalo kwi-Intanethi, sonke siqhele oko bakusikhangela kwaye sisihlolisise. Umntu uyayithanda, umntu akakhathali, kodwa le nto inzima ukuba ingaqwalaseli. Ewe kunjalo, abo bangayithandiyo, bangazixeleli kwinethiwekhi kwaye bangabonisi nantoni na ebomini bakho. Ukukhetha umntu ngamnye kuthi. Kodwa emva kwayo yonke loo nto, inyani yethu izele ngabantu abasingqongileyo. Ke ngoko, endaweni yoko, qhubekani kuvavanyo, kuba lunomdla omkhulu! Asazi ukuba sikufunda njani iingcinga, asaziwa, ukuba ngubani kwaye ubona njani kwaye uyabona.