Imodeli yaseMelika kunye nomdlali obenziweyo olona xesha lisondeleyo lolwalamano lwabo. Yiyo loo nto, inkwenkwezi eneminyaka engama-29 ubudala, eyaziwa kwindima ephambili kwifilimu "ye-divergent", i-cheily yakhokelela kwikholamu yecandelo le-leo "libuze apho abafundi baphendula khona imibuzo yabafundi. Omnye wabalandeli ubuziwe: "Ukuba into yesondo yolwalamano ayilunganga kakhulu, kwaye kungenjalo yonke into imangalisa, ngaba kufanelekile ukuqhubeka nokusebenza kobu budlelwane?". Kule mbongeni kunye nomdla uphendule wathi: "Owu ... yile nto kanye ngam. Kwaye, ngokunyaniseka, oku kwenzeka ngaphezulu kobuhlobo bam. "
Kwakhona, inkanyezi ye-movie yavuma ukuba ngokuhamba kwexesha wafunda ukujamelana nale nto, wanika iingcebiso malunga nabafundi babo. NgokukaSheiln, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kulwalamano "kukunyaniseka kunye nokungafihlisi". Umfazi akafanelanga woyike ukuthetha ngeminqweno yakhe. Oku kuyasebenza ebantwini. "Musa ukoyika ukuthetha into oyifunayo. Uninzi lwazo zonke banditsalela umnxeba xa izithandi zandixelela ngantoni kanye kanye abafuna kum, zithini iimfuno zabo. Ke uzive ukhululekile ", ---Umqolo ocetyiswayo.
Kwakhona, umongo wabelwane ngombono wokuba uthetha phantsi komxholo "wobomi obungaphumelelanga." Ukholelwa ukuba obu bubudlelwane apho abantu ababini bengalufumananga ulwimi oluqhelekileyo, abakhange batyhilene, kuba le nkqubo ithatha ixesha. "Okukhona ndizingenile ekufumanekeni kothando kunye neqabane lam, kwavela unxibelelwano lwethu ngokwasemzimbeni kwaloo nto.