Imvumi uJulia Saviava iyakuthanda ukuvuselela iingqengqele kunye ne-hairess kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokubonisa othandekayo kubabhalisi bakhe kwi-Instagram. Kwisakhelo sonyaka oneminyaka emithathu ubudala sitya i-ice cream. Inkanyezi ixele ukuba le yintombazana oyithandayo.
Nangona abazali bezama ukulawula isixa sexesha elimnandi, esidla i-qua, kodwa abazange baqale ukunqanda ngokupheleleyo izidlo zakhe. Yonke into kufuneka imodareyitha. Kodwa andizukuyikhupha ngokupheleleyo, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ebuntwaneni kufuneka ikhatshwe ziilekese, izipho kunye nokungakhathali, "yatsho uSavisheva.
Wabagxeka abazali bakhe, ngaphandle, bakhulule ukutyeba kwabantwana babo. Ngokoluvo lwayo, nkqu nabazali bezilwanyana kufuneka bavumele abantwana ukuba bakhethe ukutya kwabo. Imvumi iqinisekile ukuba, iqolile, abantwana ngokwabo baya kuyiqonda ukuba yeyiphi inkqubo yesondlo efuna ukunamathela.
"Kukho abazali abathintela abantwana benyama, imnandi, yenza amabala emifuno kubo. Kum, ke kuyabaleka! Wonke umntu ufuna ukukhula, "Ndiqinisekile uJulia.
Ngenxa yeenkumbulo ezimnandi zentombi yokuba intombi yobuntwana, umntu otyhobha ngamanye amaxesha ukwaphula ugxininiso lwesondlo sempilo. Uyaqonda ukuba iitshiphu kunye nokutya okukhawulezayo kuyingozi, kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba amaxesha ngamaxesha ungavumela umntwana naye.
"Oku akuthethi ukuba ndingoonyana bokutya okukhawulezayo kunye nee-chips kwizixa ezingafunekiyo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ndinokufuna ukutya ipitsa okanye i-burger, umzekelo," yatsho inkanyezi.