Kodwa-ke, unikeze lesi simo, abanye besifazane balungele ukutshela konke futhi babambe ucezu lwabo lwenkazimulo ebubini bomunye umuntu.
Kwenzeka nge-Jiji Jeffers ethile, kanye noJiji Goyette, othi wahlangana nomuntu onesizungu ngaleso sikhathi uSchwarzezeger ngo-1975, lapho eneminyaka eyi-16. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi lowo mlingisi wayengashadanga noMaria Shriver (lokhu kwenzeke ngo-1986), uJeyfsers wathela uwoyela emlilweni, wathi baqala ukuhlangana ngo-1989.
UJiji uletha uMariya ukuthi axhumane nendoda eshadile, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye anezela ukuthi umthelela womlingisi kwabesifazane kuleyo minyaka wawumane nje wabona ukuthi abesifazane, "bathola umthelela ongathandeki kwabesifazane,. Kuthuthukiswe ngohlelo lomzimba nolokwenziwa ngokobulili, unesifiso sokungabi nalutho, esidinga ukuphuma komzimba. "
Kodwa-ke, uSchwarzenegger ngokwakhe uyakuphika ukuthi wake walala noJeffers / Goyett. "Lona wesifazane usanda kuthengisa amathebhu wezindaba okungenani ezine ezihlobene nekhasimende lami," kusho ummeli u-Arnold Marty Singer People Edition. - Ungumuntu nje ofuna ukuthola izindaba eziningi zokuthengisa imali. Izenzo zayo zizikhulumela. "
Futhi uMaria Shriver, othi, kusukela emshadweni noSchwarzenegger, izingane ezine, ahlose ngokuqinile ukuthola ukuthi umyeni wakhe unabanye ukukhulumisana ngakolunye uhlangothi futhi waze waqasha umphenyi okhethekile wecala elinjalo.