Umlingisi waseMelika u-Ellison Jenny, owadlala indima kamama ongeyena oyingqayizivele egameni elifanayo ochungechungeni oluthi "Momash", wavuma ukuthi wayengakaze azisole ukuthi akakaze azisole ukuthi akazange azisole lo mndeni. Lesi isitatimende esikhulu senkanyezi esenziwe ngesikhathi sombukiso sadonsa iRarbymore. "Ekugcineni, ngingasho ukuthi ngingubani ngempela kule mpilo nokuthi yini efuna ngempela," kusho uJenny emoyeni.
Umlingisi uvumile ukuthi akazange ashade futhi akazange aqale izingane ngoba ngamabomu angakufuni, uvele wazifuna, wakwazi ukunikela ngempumelelo yangempela kulo lonke le nkambu. Ngokuqondene nomshado nokuba ngumama, konke kulula - akazange ahlangane nomuntu ozongenela ukhetho. "Ngicabanga ukuthi uma umuntu ofanelekile ehlangana nendlela yami yokuphila, owayefuna umndeni nengane, ngangimnika yona. Mina angikaze ngishise ngesifiso sokuba ngumama. Ngakho-ke, angizisoli ngokuthi anginazo izingane, kodwa ngokuqinisekile ngabe ngazisola, ukube ubeqale, "kukhishwa inkanyezi.
U-Ellison wathi kungakujabulela ukuhlangana nomuntu angakwazi ukuhlanganyela naye izimpilo zabo, kodwa uma lokhu kwenzeka - akukho lutho olubi, asazozizwa emuhle futhi ezanele. Khumbula ukuthi uJenny wadlala indima yomlutha wangaphambili wezidakamizwa notshwala, owaba ngunina, umzukulu wakhe wahamba ekuseni, kwathi kamuva umzukulu wakhe waya endodakazini yakhe. Kanye nendlalifa, bazama ukuqeda imikhuba emibi futhi benze izimpilo zabo kanye nezimpilo zabanye zibe ngcono.