Futhi manje uJohn Mayer axolise futhi axolise ngalokho asebenzise intatheli ngaleso sikhathi eRekhodi. Ekuqaleni, uJohn cishe ngokushesha, njengoba ufunda izingxoxo zakhe ePlayboy, wabhala e-Tweet yakhe ukuthi wayenamahloni kakhulu ukuthi wayengavinjelwe kangangokuba wangavinjelwa kangangokuba ezikhumbuzweni zakhe nasekuqhathaniseni. Ngeshwa, akuzange kusize. UJohn Mayer waqala ukuthola imiyalezo ethukuthele ama-jessica Simpson Fans kanye nama-feminists kanye nama-feminists amalungelo abesifazane, ababheka nje ukuthi bahlangane ngokuthobeka i-Simpson yabo bonke abesifazane, futhi "lawo olwenzelwe lolo thando," lawa mazwi othando!
Ummeleli weMeya uJohn kwadingeka azenze ngisho nesitatimende esisemthethweni sokuthi ngesikhathi esifishane uJohn Mayer azofika enye yezinkulumo eziphezulu azokhombisa, ukuze abonakele ukuze axolise kubo bonke umuntu ngandlela thile, noma kungenjalo walengiswa ngamazwi akhe ngandlela thile, noma kungenjalo walengiswa ngamazwi akhe ngandlela thile. Kepha kulokhu, indaba yokujikijela amatshe okulahlwa komculi ompofu wedwala ayikapheli. Ngolunye usuku uRoger Abercher, umgxeki omusha odumile we-yor, obizwa nge-Mayer njengobuhlanga. Engxoxweni bekungumbuzo ovusa inkanuko: "Uthanda abesifazane abanjani, abamhlophe-abamnyama-latinos, ama-brunette blondes nokunye?" UMeyer waphendula ngokuthi ngokufana "nowesifazane waseNegro akazange ammbelele nhlobo. Ilungu lakhe limhlophe. Futhi lokho kusho konke." Okufanele ukusho. Angizange ngicabange ngemer ngaleso sikhathi. Futhi uRoger Aberch manje wathi wayeseMeya isikhathi eside ngokuthi yiGrubis neHomofoba (ngemuva kweMonolor yeMeya eGramimi maqondana ne-blogger edumile ephathelene ne-Jennifer Aniston izovikela okungenani phambili uJennifer Aniston. Noma okungenani kwenye yezingxoxo zakhe ethi uJohn Mayer ungumculi we-rock, hhayi usopolitiki, nokuthi kungani kungxoxo yakhe nezingcaphuno kuphela, ukuze amber inqubekela phambili ngokobuhlanga, e-Homophobia naseChauvinosm