Kwesinye isikhathi abantu baba nzima ngokwanele ukuxhumana nabanye. Basola abangane babo, abathandekayo, ozakwabo ngokungaqondi futhi bahlukaniswa kakhulu nabo. Ngasikhathi sinye, ngokuvamile abaqondi ukuthi izinkinga zokuxhumana zivame ukuvela ngenxa yobunzima obuhlelweni sabo.
Sikumema ukuthi uthathe isivivinyo futhi ufunde ngezici eziphambili zomlingiswa wakho osizayo noma ophanga okuphambene ubudlelwano bethu nabanye. Lokhu kuhlolwa akujwayelekile futhi imibala izokusiza.
Ngokusho kochwepheshe bezengqondo, ukuthi sibona kanjani imibala futhi sihlukanisa ngemithunzi, singasho okuningi ngesimo sethu futhi siveze ngisho nezimfihlo ezingalindelekile kakhulu zokuqonda kwethu.
Impela, thina uqobo sabona ukuthi uma umbala owuthandayo wendoda uphuzi, owolintshi noma uluhlaza, uyathokoza futhi uvulekile. Futhi lowo ogxilisa impilo yakhe ngemibala emnyama uvaliwe futhi evame eyedwa. Bheka ngokucophelela izithombe, bese unaka ukuthi yimuphi wazo obangela imizwa enkulu kunazo zonke. Ngenxa yalokhu, ungathola ukuthi izici zobuntu bakho zibuswa yini.