Umlingisi oneminyaka engu-32 ubudala, osevele enomgibeli wendodana eneminyaka engu-7 ubudala emshadweni noChris Robinson, wathi isimo sakhe sengqondo sokuthanda akazange siguquke selokhu waba ngumama, ngoba umndeni uhlala usendaweni yokuqala.
"Isimo sengqondo mayelana nalokhu sivuthwa nje lapho usukhulile. Lezo zinto owazifuna ebudlelwaneni uba mncane, ushintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Manje sengibeka inhlonipho yendawo yokuqala, ukwethembeka, ukuyekethisa nokuxhumana. Ngicabanga, inhlonipho yilokho uthando oluphethe. Lapho kuvela izingane, khona-ke imvamisa uqala ukunaka konke ezinganeni. Uma unobudlelwano, khona-ke kufanele ulinganise yonke imikhakha yempilo yakho, kepha gxila ezinganeni. Ngakho-ke, ukuba khona kwezingane kuzocacisa ngokuphelele ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuthanda nokuba nobudlelwano. "
UKate uphinde ukholelwe ukuthi ukukhuthazela kwawo, ukwethembeka nokungabaza "ekudlaleni" ebudlelwaneni kusiza ukusiza ukuqina ebudlelwaneni: "Angisabeli ezinsongo nangomhawu. Kusukela ekuqaleni, ngimelene nazo zonke lezi zinto. Ngicabanga ukuthi noma ngubani oxhumana nami kahle ngawazi ukuthi uma beqala okuthile okunjalo, khona-ke ngizoveza konke engikucabangayo. "