UMathewu McCONAHI nonkosikazi wakhe uCamila ALSI waba amaqhawe amacala amasha kamagazini wedolobha lasePort & Country Magazine.
Ngesonto eledlule bagubha iminyaka eyisishiyagalombili kusukela ngosuku lomshado. Lo mbhangqwana uphakamisa izingane ezintathu: uLevi oneminyaka eyishumi, uLevi oneminyaka engu-11 ubudala noLivingston oneminyaka eyisikhombisa. Ngo-2008, uMcConahi nama-Alves basungula inhlangano enikela ukuxhasa abafundi esikoleni esiphakeme bagcina i-livin, "ebanikeza amathuluzi wokwenza impilo esebenzayo nokwamukela izixazululo ezinempilo." Engxoxweni noMathewu noCamila, bakhuluma kancane ngesisa sabo nokukhulisa izingane.
Ngikholelwa esikoleni esiphakeme kukhona ithuba lokugcina lokuxwayisa intsha kukho konke okubi nokuthumela ngendlela efanele,
- kusho umlingisi. Ngasikhathi sinye, ama-Mcconahs awakholelwa ukuthi ukunikela ngokuzinikela:
Ukunikeza abanye noma yini kuyisifiso sobugovu. Ngithanda ukubona ukumamatheka kwalabo esibasiza, bezwa ukuthi abantu abasha sisitshela kanjani ukuthi "Ngiyabonga." Akunangqondo? Ngicabanga ukuthi lesi isenzo se-engoic ngokuphelele.
Futhi, umlingisi wakhomba umehluko phakathi 'kokunikeza zonke izingane "futhi" enikeza abakudingayo. "
Kwesinye isikhathi ukuthanda izingane kwehlela ukubanikeza konke abakufunayo. Abantu abacebile banganika izingane zabo konke, kepha ekugcineni kungenzeka zingakutholi abakudingayo. Ukuthanda izingane kunzima impela uma ungakhathaleli ngempela. Ukubatshela "cha" kunzima kakhulu kunokuthi "yebo." Ukwahlulela ngendlela umkami unkosikazi wami, ngisalokhu ngitshela izingane ukuthi "yebo." Mhlawumbe uqinisile
- Ukwabiwa kukaMathewu.