Engxoxweni yakamuva noDuin Wade, Isihloko esithambisayo sokukhonjwa kwezocansi ezinganeni sithintekile. Indodana yakhe uZyon, njengoba uWade wavezwa, hhayi ku- "Male Wave." Umdlali we-basketball watshelwa ukuthi wacabanga ukuthi kuqashelwa okokuqala ngqa.
Lapho indodana ineminyaka emithathu, mina nomkami sabona ukuthi 'akazange athole leso sikhathi', ngokungafani nomfowabo omdala. Ngabe sengibheka esibukweni ngathi: "Kuzokwenzekani uma indodana yakho iza kuwe isho ukuthi uyisitabane? Uzokwenzani? Uzizwa kanjani? Inkinga ayikho kuyo. Uyazi ukuthi ungubani. Uyazi ukuthi ungubani? "
- UDwayne wabelwe.
Muva nje, uWade uthumele isithombe somndeni enkundleni yezenhlalo, lapho indodana yakhe uZyon ivele khona eKrop-top kanye ne-manicure ekhanyayo. Ubufazi bengane ngokushesha baba yisihloko esikhulu sengxoxo phakathi kwababhalisile be-basketball Player, abanye baphendule esithombeni esingesihle kakhulu futhi basole abazali ukuthi babuka ingane. "
Khona-ke uDuin kwadingeka akwazi ukukhuluma ngokuvikela iNdodana.
Umgomo wami okuwukuphela komzali ukusekela nokuthanda izingane zakho, noma ngabe kwenzekani. Ubuwula buyingxenye yezwe esiphila kulo, ngakho-ke kufanele ngifane nalo,
Ubhale uWade waphawula ukuthi umndeni wakhe uzoba nothando ukusekela ingane yize yonke into.
Manje uDuane uthi "izinkambiso ezintsha ziza," futhi kuze kube manje abantu bamelana nalokhu ngenkuthalo.
Kepha kwesinye isikhathi uhlangana nalabo abakwenza ushintshe amaphuzu bese ubheka izinto ngenye indlela, "ngamalensi amasha." Futhi lokhu kungukufaneleka komkami. Ngabe ukhuluma ngamandla nesibindi? Indodana yami eneminyaka engu-12 ingaphezu kwami. Sinokuthile esingakufunda ezinganeni,
Waphawula.
