Iholide le-tespholi elidumile elidumile libike amaqiniso athile angaqondakali ngomshado wakhe wangaphambili ngesidlaliso. Ubike ukuthi kuphoqelekile ukuba kuhambele inkambo yokwelashwa ngemuva kwesehlukaniso, kubiza ubudlelwano nobuhlungu futhi obunobuthi.
"Ukwelashwa okunonya kwesinye isikhathi kuyathandeka kangangokuba wangena kancane kancane izimpilo zethu, imasking yothando. Akunandaba ukuthi uqine kangakanani. Akunandaba ukuthi uzithanda kangakanani. Akunandaba noma ngabe ucabanga: "Akusoze kwenzeka kimi." Kwenzeka, "Kuphathwe iholide.
Icala nengxoxo yami yangaphakathi lingitshela ukuthi "Thumela izingane zakho ngokwengeziwe" "Khuluma ngesehlukaniso sakho i-BC Kungasiza abanye" "Babelane ngokupheka kwakho / Ukuthola / Ukulungiselela" kepha ulungele. KUBE BONKE. Anginaso isifiso kodwa ngibona abanye bekwenza & blah blah ubukeka lula
- I-TESS H?Liday (@Tess_Holliday) Janawari 22, 2021
Ngokusho kwemodeli, wabuka ukuthi yonke into iwela ngayo yonke into: umsebenzi wakhe, ubudlelwano obunobungane, inyamalala. Kepha akakwazanga ukuyeka lokhu aze aqonde ukuthi sekwephuze kakhulu. UTess uqinisekisa ukuthi wezwa ehlazeka futhi ebuhlungu. Kwakufanele afihle okuningi emphakathini. Usazama ukubhekana nalo muzwa.
UTess waphendukela kuwo wonke amantombazane abhekene nobudlelwano bokuhlukumeza, bezama ukubaqinisekisa ukuthi babengenacala. Yena, ukhululwe ekuhanjisweni kothando lokugcina, manje angenqatshwa ngosuku olujwayelekile olunelanga futhi akholelwa ukuthi empeleni unenhlanhla enkulu. Ngemuva kwakho konke, amantombazane amaningi uma nje awakwazi ukuba kude nokonile.
"Indlela eya kuwe yayihlala isikhathi eside, iyadida futhi inzima. Nami angisazi esibukweni. Ungesabi akusekwenzekani endlini yami, kuthathelwa indawo ukubonga, "kusho uTess.
Khumbula, imodeli yahlangana nemodeli ngonyaka ka-2012, kwathi eminyakeni emithathu kamuva wambiza eshadile. Ngo-2016, indlalifa yavela emhlabeni, eyabo ogama lakhe linguBowhie. Abalingani bahlukana ngoJanuwari nyakenye. Futhi, uTess oneminyaka engama-35 unenye indodana egama linguRiley, ezalwe ebudlelwaneni bedlule ngo-2005.