Ngokumangalelwa kuka-Ostershaus, osebenza naye uKylie Kaminsky ukhulume, othi ngonyaka ka-2008 waphoqeleka ukuba enze ucansi oluthosiwe naye. Uveze ukuthi akakwazanga ukwenqaba, njengoba wesaba ukulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi, kwathi ngaso sonke isikhathi kwenzeka isikhathi eside, wahlushwa ukucindezelwa futhi waphathwa nge-psychotherpist.
Umethuli we-TV wakuqinisekisa ukuxhumana kwakhe neKaminsky futhi wathi konke lokhu bekungasebenzi, kodwa ngesivumelwano sobabili. Ngaleso sikhathi, u-Amy noCarter bashada, baqala ukuhlangana eminyakeni eminingana kamuva, ngakho-ke umlingisi wenza ngokuzethemba umyeni wakhe: "Manje isikhathi esibaluleke kakhulu, lapho ungadingi ukuthula. Ezinye izindaba ziyiqiniso futhi zimbi. Futhi kukhona bobabili ngomyeni wami. Kubukeka kimi ukuthi sekuvele kude kakhulu. Lapho ubudlelwano bungakhuli ngendlela ongathanda ngayo, khona-ke udinga ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngezenzo zakho, futhi ungabikisi isisulu. Le ndaba inonya maqondana nolunye lwabantu abanomusa, abakhathalelayo nabathandayo. Wafika kude kakhulu, futhi kufanele ame ngokushesha. Abezindaba badinga ukuhlola idatha ngokucophelela futhi baqonde ukuthi izihloko eziphakeme kangakanani zingabhubhisa. "
We are in a climate right now where it’s so wonderful and needed to have women coming forward to break their silence; it is vital and important for female equality. Period. A lot of the stories are horrific and need to be brought to light. This story, about my husband, Carter Oosterhouse, on the other hand, is now taking it too far and boundaries are being crossed. When you are in a CONSENSUAL RELATIONSHIP, then you need to take responsibility for engaging in that and not play victim. IF a relationship does not work out the way you want it to, then sorry, but that is the risk you take when getting intimate with another person. There are plenty of relationships I wish I could go back and make different choices about, but it was on me to decide. We need to take responsibility and learn from our mistakes and choices. Women are powerful and we need to be reminded of the strength and power we hold and learn ways to take care of ourselves so we don’t find ourselves saying yes when we really need to say no. The article is very damaging and cruel to one of the most kindest, loving, non-aggressive men I have the privilege of knowing and I am so sorry for these salacious words being thrown around, they are extremely hurtful. This type of reporting needs to stop, it’s so damaging for personal lives and careers and just not fair. Enough is enough, this is a plea to the writers, outlets and media…More due diligence needs to be done before crafting headlines and stories. Have discernment when you tell a story and please consider the source and story before just printing anything to get readers and viewers. #lovethesetwo
Публикация от amy smart (@smarthouse26)
