Amaningi ashley graham aziwa njengemodeli yokukhulisa enganqikazi ukukhuluma ngesimo somuntu futhi abonise izici nokuthi "ukungapheleli" komzimba wabo. Ukuba ngumama, u-Ashley waqala ukukhuluma ngokungananazi ngomama, ngokwesibonelo, ngokuzondla ingane ngamabele nezinye izinqubo ezivame ukuhlala "ezigcawini". UGraham ukholelwa ukuthi lezi zinto azilungile ukunamahloni, yize zibalulekile futhi zingokwemvelo ngokuphelele.
Engxoxweni entsha no-Et Ashley waphakamisa lesi sihloko futhi. "Ngikholwa ukuthi ukuncelisa ibele kufanele kube okwejwayelekile. Njengakho konke okunye, njengemisebenzi yabazali. Bonke abazali bahlukile, bonke bangababo bomzimba wabo ngezindlela ezihlukile. Ukuncelisa ibele [endaweni yomphakathi] kufanele kube yimbangela efanayo nengane edla ebhodleleni, "kusho imodeli.
I-Graham uqobo ifaka izithombe zayo njalo lapho kuncelisa khona ibele, futhi kugqugquzela ababhalisile ukuthi badambise ukubandlulula kwalesi simo. Futhi uGraham wakhombisa ku-Instagram, njengoba i-diaper ishintsha ingane phansi esitolo esitolo futhi yasebenzisa amaphampu webele etekisini.
U-Ashley uthi uyakubheka umsebenzi wawo - ukuze ungamgwedli umphakathi ukuze abantu bafunde ukwamukela bona kanye nomzimba wabo.
"Ebusheni bami, kwakungekho bantu abanjalo abangakhuluma obala ngomzimba. Ngakho-ke, ngiyakwenza, futhi le yinto esemqoka engiyangishukumisela. Ngalesi sizathu, angithumeli izithombe "ezifanele" ku-Instagram - ngibashiya bangempela futhi bemvelo. Ngifuna abantu bazi ukuthi kunabesifazane abanama-cellulite, ama-fat sediments emhlane wakhe, welule amamaki ... "- Utshele uGraham.