Izembatho zezemithi zakudala zesando eziphathelene nempilo yezocansi zivela enetheni ngokulwa nemvelaphi yezingxabano "ngempumelelo" yakhe. Umlingisi amasonto ambalwa avele ezihlokweni zezindaba ngenxa yokuvuza okuhlosiwe kwi-Intanethi yokuxhumana kwakhe nalowo owayethandekayo. Ezikrinini, ubuqiniso bakwangalo bungakaze buqinisekiswe kuze kube manje, kwathiwa mayelana nemicabango engeyona ejwayelekile yosaziwayo, edale igagasi lokuxhumana ngabasebenzisi benethiwekhi.
Ukulungisa esihlokweni kungenzeka ukuthi kungenzeka, abalandeli bakhumbula izingxoxo zesikhathi eside izembatho zezempi ezinezintatheli ze-Playboy, ezenzeka ngo-2013. Engxoxweni nalo mculi kwavuma ukuthi 'ungumthandi ovelele,' okuthi "wathanda ukubamba intamo, izinwele nakho konke lokho." Kodwa-ke, isando siphinde satshelwa ukuthi lezi zikhathi zaphela lapho nje ehlangana nothando lwayo lweqiniso nomlingani wakhe - u-Elizabeth Chembers. "Uma ushada, izifiso zakho ziyashintsha. Akunankinga ungahlupheki kulokhu, kepha awukwazi ukudonsa unkosikazi wakho ngezinwele zakho. " Abathandi bake bashada kusukela ngo-2010, kodwa ngoJulayi 2020 bamemezela isehlukaniso.
Kwenye inhlolokhono no-Elle 2013, amabutho athi ahlangana nowesifazane owayezama ukumshaya ngommese ngesikhathi sothando uJits, ewachaza ngamazwi alandelayo: "Uthando lweqiniso lushiya izibazi. Awunabo. " UHummer uvumile ukuthi lobu budlelwano babekhona isikhathi eside - cishe izinyanga eziyisikhombisa. Ama-Snapshots enhlamba embhalweni esokeni lapho umlingisi esolwa khona ahlanganyela khona imicabango engaziwa, athumele umngane wakhe wangaphambili, ahlangana nawo ngo-2020.