Ameva eBella ahlabe abalandeli bakhe ngezincwadi ezintsha - umlingisi athumele uchungechunge lwezithombe, ezifaka "ezigqoke" ubucwebe obuthile bedayimane. Phakathi kwazo kukhona indandatho enkulu emnweni onegama. Abalandeli bakaBel baphetha ngokuthi ngale ndlela wabhala lapho kufakwa khona umshado ngeBenjamin Maskenke.
Ubudlelwano phakathi kwabo kwaqala ngonyaka owedlule. Engxoxweni ne-Vanity Fair Bella, wathi wahlangana nesithandwa ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi.
Uthi ngiqale ukushiya amazwana esithombeni sakhe ku-Instagram. Lokhu bekungenjalo, kepha ake acabange kanjalo. Sashintshana ngezinombolo futhi wonke umuntu wayefuna ukuhlangana. Kepha lapho efika eLos Angeles, ngaphuma ndawo ndawo, kwathi lapho sengindiza e-Italy, kwakungekho uBhen lapho. Kepha sahlangana noMkhosi Wabaqeqeshi,
- Umlingisi owabiwe.
Ngosuku lokuqala, ukufunga kwabuza imibuzo yokuhlola uBen ukuze baqonde ngokushesha ukuthi ubudlelwano kungenzeka phakathi kwabo.
Ubudlelwano buyafana nomfula lapho amatshe atholakala kuyo yonke indawo. Kuthu, lokhu kuyimpilo emazweni ahlukene, udumo nokunye. Uma ungazami ukugwema "amatshe" anjalo, ngakho-ke kungcono ukungaqali ukungaqali
- kusho uBella.
Ameva azibiza nge-bisexual futhi asekela umbono wobudlelwano be-polymomorous. UMasklolo akaphikisi lokhu futhi kusho uBella "wavula" ukuqonda okusha kobudlelwano kuye.